Friday, May 15, 2009

May 16, 2009 Birthday wishes and bugs galore

Hi all
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to sis in law Dina, niece Jessica and nephews Jacob and Chandler who all celebrated birthdays in the past 2 weeks. Hope you all enjoyed your special days.

Today CJ and I are hanging out at the house and regrouping after a busy week. CJ had the BIG product launch at work this past week and it went well, but late night dinners and outings with the guys left him pooped and ready for a day to hang out and play catch up at home. So we slept in this am and then when we woke to cloudy skies and cooler weather we decided to skip the Thai festival in Tokyo and do bookwork, packing, phone calls.... and such here at home. Maybe if it is nice we will venture north for the 2ND day of the festivities.

I should be packing for my trip back to MN and Honduras next Friday but as usual I am procrastinating on that chore. :-( Had a few days in the house this week and then a fun day taking pics of the rainbow assortment of roses in bloom at Harbor View Park...WOW...what a colorful display it was. Then as I made my way down the slope to the grocery store, I saw lots and lots of bugs, blossoms, butterflies... I was taking pics of a butterfly flitting about and then saw a bee busy gathering nectar from some white blossoms and then all of a sudden I started seeing with tunnel vision so to speak. My world then took on a very narrow perspective and I began seeing things in miniature. I sat down on the steps and just looked at a bunch of weeds in front of me along the cement wall and what to my wondering eyes did I see but all kinds of little insects, ants, ladybugs, moths, butterflies,and insects of all varieties. It was a rather magical time and lots of fun. The longer I sat and looked the more little creatures I saw moving to and fro along stems, leaves, stamens of flowers...Needless to say my getting to the store took longer than I thought and even my walk back with an armful of goods didn't keep me from stopping to snap some more on the way home as the sun was setting for another day here in Japan.
I am still enjoying my explorations here in Japan and now I am getting excited to get back to MN and Honduras and hopefully see those places with a different eye as well and capture some nice photos of people, places, bugs .... there as well. Yesterday I thought I was going to Sankeien Garden to check out the Iris with Jenny and Janice, but our plans changed and I had another exciting and fun filled day meeting many new people. Janice had to cancel out of our walk due to repairman spending another day redoing her closets which got mildewed over the winter months. A very common thing here in Japan when houses are closed up and there is lots of humidity and rain. We did stop by her House to drop her some fresh pastry treats and to at least say HI and then of course she invited us and we had a nice chat with her as she was replacing all her clothes back in the closets. I found she is a hippo lover as well and has a collection of her very own back home in the UK. She had a few little ones to remind her of her love for them, that she brought along with her to Asia from home.
We then went off to Chinatown and met up with some of Jenny's lady friends. It ended up being a very odd and rare situation here in Japan but I got in the middle of a outward verbal display of confrontation in a public restaurant. It all ended quickly but to actually witness it with my own eyes and ears was indeed something very unusual. :-(
As we made our way through Chinatown we must have looked kind of funny to some as we ended up being dressed in the exact same salmon color. I actually said to her we look like twins today and I bet other people will think that's pretty funny given the size and personal style we both have. I am like a foot taller than Jenny even with her high heel wedge shoes on and she is always all dolled up from head to toe in a monochromatic color scheme, head band, jewels, and a made up face. We even had some young Japanese men run up to us and ask for our photo together. Jenny was actually quite shocked by it I think and said usually we are the ones asking to take their pics and now they are taking them of us.I am sure were gabbing much louder than we probably should of been and so that and our color display amongst the black suits and white shirts must have been a sight for sore eyes. Oh how I would love to see that photo:-) ha ha
Jenny and I then made our way to the Yamashita Park where we sat next to the fountain in the cool breeze and sunshine while enjoying our curry filled and cream cheese/cranberry filled pastries. Yum! We often got refreshed as the wind blew and the fountain water mist sprayed us a bit with some refreshing and cool water droplets. Ahhh!
Then the junior high boys from Osaka gathered around the fountain railing and as they waited for all the students to gather and regroup for the return trip home. We started to chat with a few of them and the next thing we were taking pics of Me with Hitashi, Mao, Toro....They were very surprised when I stood up, that I was even taller than Hitashi who was actually quite tall for a 14yr old. We bid them farewell and were headed to St Maur school to pick up her son Yuki. On the way out of the park we met up with another new Korean lady for me from Houston. She and her dog Sarah a Shiatzu who could have been Jenny's dog with all her red hair bows keeping tufts of hair out of her eyes and on her rump. It still cracks me up how the people love and dress up their dogs here. I suppose if I didn't have kids I might do the same, but then I don't really like the little rat dogs as I call them and I am not too sure how bigger dogs look good in clothes, bandannas around their necks maybe or a winter vest in the snow..but come on I have a tough time paying $20 for a dress for myself let alone a dog.
Anyhoo, after a nice long conversation with Sarah's mom(? can't remember her name) we made it up to the school and never did get to walk through the rose garden. We did see a few roses in Yamashita though and enjoyed our visits there. At the St Maur Int'l school I was meeting folks left and right. It was the end of the day and all the parents gathered on the playground and had chats with one another as their kids played on the jungle gym. Jenny introduced me to so many new ladies I had a headache when I was done trying to quickly write all their names in my little pocket notebook. Yes I carry that with me here, just like I do in Honduras or whenever I am traveling. It really helps when I get home and can look back and see just what it was they said to me.I met ladies from UK, Holland, France, Hawaii, Korea...and my dear friend Gracia from Honduras via Texas was there too. I always love seeing her as she and I hug and kiss like we are old friends and yet, I really have only talked with her 2 or 3 times for very brief periods. There is just something about the Latin culture and its people. Their warmth and love just seeps from them with no problem. It makes me so happy and relaxed. I told her that too, and how it makes me even more excited for my upcoming trip and the one month of hugs and love I am sure to give/receive at the hogar. To love and be loved is the greatest joy on earth Right?
After we left the playground Jenny I and her son Yuki stood on the street corner and chatted some more. It was fun for me to talk with Yuki and ask him questions about kids his age and what they like to do. He speaks very good English at 10yrs old. Perfect actually. I did not hear one word or sentence that was not grammatically correct. Cool. He was born here in Japan but has lived in Switzerland and Singapore already in his young life. He asked me if I was going to come to his house but I said not today, but I will have to have him and Jenny over when I get back here in July. They are fun folks and they are home alone allot as the dad is often not home before midnight everyday of the week. When we were talking on the playground with other moms many of them said the same thing. WOW...I am glad CJ is not doing that. Most nights he is home at 7pm at the latest. This week of course it was like most other families live on a regular basis. It reconfirmed for me that is NOT how I want to live my life and I guess I feel fortunate it has worked out like we want it,so far.
It made me sad to think many of these kids never see there dad's except on weekends. CJ said well I never saw my dad either as he drove truck all week, but I said it seems a bit different as he is gone and out of town. These guys are home and coming and go each day and night to the same house yet the kids never get quality time with their daddies till the weekends and sometimes not that either as many companies have golf outings then. Uff da!

May 16, 2009
Today CJ and I slept in as he was pooped from his week of late nights out. It catches up with you and I wonder sometimes how the men can even function when that is the norm. Can't be too healthy, I wouldn't think.
We have been doing book work,going through papers, this blog, and I've been "thinking" about packing. We also enjoyed a looooong chat and lots of laughs and a few tears for me with Kalen and a short hello with Mike on Skype as well. Mike is now in Iowa City and enjoying that town and its coffee shops. I guess each of the actors is staying with a different family. That is fun and something I did not know. I think he said he lives with a older retired couple. Mike said it has been raining alot and he was concerned about possible flooding. I guess last year they had quite a problem there. Hope the rain stops and things dry up so hopefully massive crowds can make their way to see him perform in his Shakespeare plays next month.Sumo is on now and so I will close this up and head down to see what is going on. I forget all this week to check, or I was not home when it was telecast.
We may head to Thai festival tomorrow and then I have a very busy week next week before we go home to Mn on the 22ND. Monday I will go to the orphanage again with Janice and Lynn. Tuesday for a hike in Kita-kamakura along the seacoast or hills with the Janice and the "Jwalkers or maybe Jaywalkers". Wednesday the YIWC goes on a block printing exhibition outing and then on Thursday its the final monthly luncheon till it resumes in the fall after summer break. We are having a social dance demonstration as out entertainment I think. Then Friday we leave for MN and WI for niece AJ's High School graduation party in Chetek with the Harriman gang. I think Bernie and Solvei will ride along with us after we pick Kalen up from the airport. Graham may have to work in Duluth, but we are hopeful he can catch up with us in EP on Memorial Day for a family bike ride and and hour or two for the 4 of us to hang out and catch up.
Then I will have two weeks in MN before I head to Honduras for the month of June. I need to make my annual trip for new kid photos, to get new information and to meet the 6 new children that arrived at the hogar since my visit last year. So who knows when I will get to this blog again. My guess is,it will not be until after Memorial Day? I most likely will get pics on Face book as the days go by...that seems to be easier for some reason.
Take care and hope I get to see some of you when I am back in the area.
Love ya
Karla, CJ and family

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

May 12, 2009 Fun at the Kofu Orphanage

Konbanwa
CJ is busy all week at work with a BIG product launch and dinner meetings so I have some time to get this blog updated, pack for my upcoming trip to MN and Honduras and have been trying to line up some volunteer work here for the fall. CJ and I had a great weekend and I actually went to work with him on Saturday morning to help put some binders together for the sales and marketing meeting. You know me always like shuffling papers around. We were so surprised and delighted while we were waiting for the train when our friend Shoehi tapped us on the shoulder. WOW..if that is not CRAZY. In this BIG city we have now ran into him 2 different times. Fun..we had a nice chat and visit on the train as he went up to Tokyo for his Toefl English class and we headed towards work. He showed us a few good books he was reading about The Japanese and International issues. He is going to school to be an International lawyer.
We bid him farewell and then enjoyed a walk along the wooded path and duck pond on the way to and from Graco KK. It sure looked alot different there now, than when I went at cherry season in late March. No more pink trees and now everything was green and full of leaves. There were quite a few yellow iris and 3 or 4 purple ones on the bank of the pond, and lots of pink and white lilly pads making a tarp over much of the water. Only a few ducks were swimming about and I saw about 6 or 7 turtles poking their heads above the water to see who was out there.
After the binders were completed I stopped for a haircut when I found a place for 980yen. Yahoo that is the cheapest I have seen here, most charge 5000yen and I refuse to pay that every 5 weeks. So I went in and said I wanted a cut and thinning and the girl was a bit nervous I think as I told her in English. She tried to talk with me in Japanese, but no such luck. I told her whatever she would do, will be better than what I had. No worries. So then she led me first to the locker where I locked my bags in and took the key and then when I sat down she gave me an eye glass case to hold my glasses in while she cut my hair. WOW...such service:-) She did a great job and it feels so nice to not look like GUMBY head.
We then went out for lunch and after we made our way to the book store Shohei told us about in Yokohama Station. There we found the two books he was talking about and also I got my first Manga cartoon book in English so I can see what this rage is all about. I got Volumne one of Fruit Basket which is a teen romance story I guess? It is actually rather odd and I am not exactly sure I am reading it correctly either. The books all open opposite of ours and then I am not sure if I am to go down and up left to right or just right to left and back and forth down the page...
CJ finished the book on Internationalization on the train and then when we got home I read it and now he has taken it to share with guys and gals at work.
Sunday we slept in and then enjoyed a chat with Kalen via Skype for Mom's Day. Mikey left Monday for Iowa and his summer of Shakespeare. Got nice note from Graham and had a good long chat with him a few days earlier in the week. They are both well and keeping busy. Looking forward to seeing them both next weekend in MN. Yea!
CJ and I then made our way up to Tokyo's Yoyoji park for the Jamaican ONE LOVE festival. It was a beautiful day and lots of people were there to rock to the reggae rhythms. It was interesting to see some alternative looking Japanese folks and not so reserved in their black suits and white shirts. We even saw a few exposed tattoos which is not a real accepted thing here in Japan. We enjoyed some good jerk chicken tacos and I kept my fingers crossed that the spanish folks and one white guy who all had a bit too much to drink kept themselves in line. It was actually a bit awkward and felt quite subdued for a concert. We hung around a bit and enjoyed the many different artists coming out to sing one song with the band. Some were pretty good, but the pronounciation of some words sounded a bit funny and were not even close I don't think to what Bob Marley wrote them as. They are entertainers though and do get into their singing.
We then made our way back through Yoyoji park where tons more people were just hanging out on theri little plastic tarps and having picnics, some samuari couples were doing sai battles, the lone guy was jumping around to his boom box. The Elvis wannebee twisters were there and dancing up a storm like all other Sunday's. Across the way on the plaza only a few Harajuku girls were out strutting theri stuff and actually more boys were there holding there FREE HUGS signs and waiting for soem takers.
We made our way home for some dinner and the next episode of American Idol. We were so happy when Matt got saved. He reminds me of Kalen's man friend Michael. I know you in the USA are down to the last 3, but we still have 8 here in Japan. Sumo started again this weekend and so if I am around the next 15 days I can watch the top 2 divisons wrestle each day at 4-6pm.
Monday May 11, 2009 I had another long chat with my mom for Mothers Day and also found out my dad got himself a new 3 wheel bike to ride. He is so happy to now have some freedom to move about and go to the grocery store. I am hoping my mom might try it out and get one for herself as well? They are doing well and enjoyed seeing their grandson Stafford graduate with his Masters Degree in Psychology last week. Mark's daughter Sarah also left for NYC with her man friend Cameron in toe this time around. She is doing well with her modeling out there and he is going to try and find some tech work I think.
Today Tuesday May 12 I had two meetings one at St Maur International school acrtoss the street and it looks like I will have many different volunteer opportunities available to help with in the fall.:-) Also my two new pals Janice and Lynnn from YIWC joined me today and we went to the Kofu orphanage to work with the preschool kids there. We will go back next Monday and then we hopefully will get to go weekly and help/play and teach them some English through songs and games? There is about 10 kids and they are so cute with their jet black stick straight hair, big almond eyes and cute little smiles. Reina and Noboru were two kids that stood out for me just in our 1 hour meeting. I sadly can not put pics of them up on the web if their face is showing, but I can show pics of their surroundings and the backs of their head ro blur their faces. So guess there will be more stories than pics of those days.
So now I need to pack my stuff and get things in order for my 1 month trip to Honduras. Will be busy there taking new pics of all the children,and having them write letters, answer new profile questions...We will be in MN for a few weeks too and looks as if the neighbors house will be ready after the fire and they get to move back into their new fireproof house.
I am getting all kinds of letters from my new found Japanese friends I have been meeting in the parks and along the streets. Yesterday I got a nice letter from Miyuki-san the man who sang to us on the Boardwalk. It was all in Japanese but two lines and so I had my friend Futakami-san help me out today with the translation. I also got another cute art decorated letter from Yojiro-san that is his 4th already sincne we met April 5th. Today I came home to a note and photos from Riye and her papa Aiko who I met in the Park. Shohei and Maggie from China write me emails as well, so I am finally making some native friends her and it is so fun. Now I really need to wrok on my Japanese.
Well I am pooped after the long walk today, being in the hot room with the kids. I am going to have to take my sweat rag with me there, that is for sure. It isn't even hot here yet, and I was already sweating like a SWINE..geez I hope that doesn't make me more susceptible to the flu? ha-ha
Looks like I will miss my black and white painting classes in the next week, but I hope to go again next fall when they start up again? I did enjoy that. I may have calligraphy this Thursday and who knows CJ and I may go back up to Yoyoji this weekend for the Thai festival. We will see how tired he is after being out late every night this week. They are sure to have some good food there, don't you think.
Or perhaps I need to go check Sankeien Gardens out and see what their Iris display looks like. The Jasmine vines were in bloom here the last 2 weeks and it smelt so good as you walked down the street. I can not tell what the fragrance is from now that fills the air, but something else is giving off a great natural perfume smell.
Looks like strawberry season is coming to an end here :-( and watermelons and bing cherries, tiny grapes are starting to show up at the fruit markets. I have enjoyed a few very ripe, tasty and juicy mangoes as well.
Well I guess that's enough for now....I am off to bed to rest my head and hope you all have a great day or night
Karla

Thursday, May 7, 2009

May 7, 2009 A very busy GOLDEN WEEK was had here in Japan

Konnichiwa
Well it was a beautiful Golden Week and the sun shone brightly all but the last day day of it. Too bad too, as it put a damper on Boys Day Festivities for many I am sure. It has been raining non stop since mid day on Tuesday. WOW!! My cupboards are getting very bare, but I don't even want to venture out in the driving rain to walk to the market to replenish the food supply. Guess I will scrounge around for some instant Ramen soup and salad for supper and hope that will satisfy my man?
CJ and I had a FUN and VERY BUSY week. We did go to Enoshima Island on Friday and had a nice day hanging out on the coastline and watching the waves crash, tickled the sea anemones in the tide pools and then watched a beautiful sunset to close the day over Mt Fuji-san. It felt like we were back in California again and it brought back lots of good memories for us of times with our kids. We too rang the LOVE bell in honor of our 30 years together come May 26th. There is a monument area on the island where lovers come and lock a padlock to the fence and then ring the bell. We did not have a lock, but we did ring the bell and it echoed very loudly. CJ told me I was to do it gently, but you know me. Everything I seem to do is hard and fast no gentle or delicate for this gal I guess. Oops!

Saturday May 2nd

We slept in till 7 and then made our way down to Nihon-odori street to watch the flower carpets being made. There were a TON of people participating and yet, like all events here in Japan...it ran like clock work. The littlest of kids are so respectful, well behaved and capable of things you might not see kids twice their age do in other countries. It was amazing. The carpets were made kind of like we do the sawdust alfombras at Easter for Semana Santa week in Honduras. I of course, had all I could do not to jump in and help.
They had a central area that passed out the needed supplies of glue brushes, glue bottles, buckets full of colored blue, green and black sand. They too had sprayers with glue to seal or dampen the flowers and sand so to hold them in place from the wind that was blowing around all day. They had big sheets of white paper taped to the street with the designs drawn on with black marker. Each area within the black lines was marked with a color name and flower. They first had a group huddle and my guess is that they explained the procedure to the group gathered which almost covered the entire working surface...and I then wondered how they were going to work with so many people? So once they parted, the first kid painted on some glue with a brush and then the next kid or adult poured from a cup the black sand to make the borders and blue sand for the sky in their drawings and green sand for the leaves and grass. All the rest was done with red, yellow, orange, purple, pink...tulip and rose petals. Young and old worked hard, fast and with much precision. Most everyone had a hat on, to protect themselves from the hot sun. As I walked past one carpet a little girl was squatting on the ground behind a big box and trying to clean up her own pool of vomit. I bent down to help her and to try to get someones attention to see if they even knew she was ill and the minute I started to talk to her, some Japanese lady came by and then she ran away and minutes later there was a nurse with a first aid kit at her side helping her. WOW...that was very surprising and fast. I thought it was so interesting how she must not have told anyone and it seemed as if she was trying to deal with the whole situation on her own..so as not to disturb anyone? She must have been 10 yrs old if that.
There was also some exhibit tents set up on either side of the carpet area and a few garden companies were allowing folks to make up their own floral centerpieces. I had fun watching two little preschool age girls working alongside with their mom and grandma I assumed, to make a pretty pink flower centerpiece. Wow.. they start teaching them at a very young age to do many things and the thing is, the kids seem so very capable to actually do the stuff with ease?
So CJ and I walked around the 29 carpets for an hour or so and watched the progress. Then we took a break and went to Yodobashi Camera. CJ had to return a couple things and he wanted to buy me some computer pads so I hopefully can avoid carpel tunnel. Who knows I may have already done the damage. My hand was actually purple the other night after I was done typing. I seem to rest my wrists very heavily on the keyboard and have actually formed quite a callus on both wrist bones. Not good I suspect:-(My shoulders seem to be in knots allot too, so when he was wandering in electronics heaven I went up to the 5Th floor for another massage chair massage. I saw the same guy we met when Donna, Michelle and I enjoyed a 20 minute chair massage and I had another nice body massage and visit with him again this time. I told him perhaps I can talk CJ into buying one of those chairs instead of the $1,000.00 rice cooker he keeps talking about. I really would like one, but the best one that does 737 movements is $5,000.00 and that is a little more than I want to spend. Also if it has troubles back in states...how will I get it fixed ? He did agree that might be a major problem. So I was safe and didn't have to buy one, after that question. :-)

So after my massage and CJ's bag full of toys we made our way past Cozy Corner Bakery for our favorite Jumbo Cho and then back on the train to see the progress made and opening ceremony of the carpets. Everything was cleaned up, guard ropes were up, lights were hooked up to illuminate them at dusk and the ceremony was under way. As we strolled up, they were giving out certificates to the artists who drew each of the carpet designs. They were all women and one young girl who was a junior high or late elementary student. Cool!
They were very nice, colorful and it was fun to view them being made as you could hear the roar of the crowd from the baseball game in the stadium at the end of the street. It was a perfect summer day outing.

Sunday May 3rd was Yokohama's 150Th Harbor Festival kickoff Parade. It was another lovely spring day and actually the sun got a bit warm and left me with a little sunburn after standing for 3 looooong hours in the same spot. I had a great view though as it was right where the parade started and the grand Marshall ceremony took place. Minne and Mickey Mouse from Tokyo Disney were there as was Donald ,Daisy , Pluto and Goofy and you can't imagine how excited young and old alike got when they saw them high above the crowd in a fancy Disney Float.The Japanese really get into mascots and characters. It was a colorful and lively event with many precision marching bands, baton twirlers, Boy Scouts, dance troupes of all sorts, elementary school bands playing portable keyboards and piano like recorders. Some of the kids looked like they were in kindergarten and perhaps they were or else it is just the small stature of the Japanese that makes them look even younger than they really are...kind of like my Honduran pals. There were lots of different folks dressed in historical costumes of the past years and many different countries were shown in clothing as well as it was the opening of the harbor to the western world.
After the parade we made our way up to another Int'l school food fair. We caught the last hour or so of this one and enjoyed some Korean Beef, Chicken Yakatori, French crepes, Norske organic sandwich and of course a few beers for CJ and an Indian Margarita for me? They had already sold all their samosas:-(We too enjoyed some salsa dancing, Indian dancers and a young school band called Make Me a Sandwich. They were quite good and a crowd favorite. This group had a bit more of a party atmosphere here than the Catholic School last week.
We then made our way home and sat out on the back porch and enjoyed the beautiful night air as we ate some chips and salsa. I dropped a chip and then we noticed a bunch of ants carrying it to their ant hill. It was so fun and I of course sat there and watched it much longer than CJ could. I kept thinking they were getting ready for Cinco de Mayo on the 5Th and they were all celebrating with their big taco chip. So of course I dropped another chip scrap and we then timed how long it took them to carry it from about 18 inches away. It took only 10 minutes and what team work we saw. I told CJ it was like us carrying our house across the state of MN..so crazy. The best part was when they got it to the step wall and had to turn it on end vertically to slide it down along the wall and into the front door of their house. Oh what I would give to have been able to see down in there and to see the celebration I pictured was taking place. I wonder what they were thinking. I wanted to drop a hunk of green pepper from the salsa bowl too, but CJ told me to quit messing with their universe. So...you see, we do take out time to smell the roses and watch the ants once in awhile. I know your probably thinking what was in that Indian margarita she drank...and I am too it was very good actually. :-) Ha-ha

Monday May 4Th Garden Day
This is a day where you get into the Tokyo Gardens for free. I have been to 2 different ones, but many I have not seen so when CJ flew off to China for 3 days, I made my way on the train north to check out some new ones. It was a very relaxing and tranquil day. I saw roses of all colors and varieties. Some very BIG. It is Iris season now as well and so many of those in purple, lavender, yellow, peach were blooming. All the cherry blossoms are gone as are the wisteria. One garden had a big patch of poppies and daisies and many of the azaleas were already gone or just starting. I could not tell for sure? I really think though, that some of what I have been told are azaleas are really actually rhododendrons. Anyhow it was beautiful and of course I enjoyed taking way too many fotos at different angles. I love the reflection in the water fotos of trees and flowers and each park had many a stone pagoda that make it so Japanese. Their were many older folks about and enjoying another nice day and all were donning their little white or blue boat hats. I love that whole look. I might even buy myself one, if I did not look so silly in hats.
I road on a local town shuttle bus from one park to another instead of going to the train station or taking a city bus and I felt like I got many a look as to what are you doing in here? Three little ladies that I waited in line next to were literally up to my bust level...they were probably scared by the mere SIZE of me :-)
The last park I could not find as I went to the end of the name with the star on the map instead of the dot end and so I was about 3 blocks away and it was getting near closing time, and so I by passed the last one and went and walked around the Tokyo University campus instead. I had fun taking pics of the old stone arch buildings and big old nearly trees. I then found a big pond and of course found some more shots of yellow iris's reflecting in the water. I too met a little Japanese lady that was relaxing under an arbor and she said something to me and I asked her if she spoke English and she said no only Japanese and Spanish.:-) Well that was an open door if ya know what I mean. So I sat down and we talked in Spanish/Spanglish for about 1/2 hour. She had lived in Buenos Aries for the past 30 years and I think if I understood her correctly she was back here visiting family. We exchanged address cards and hopefully she will write me as well. Her daughter is a lawyer in Argentina and and so I will write her Email there or send common mail to her other address. Well I am sure you can imagine that was very fun for me. I even remembered more than I thought I would. Speaking of Spanish.When I called the lady from the orphanage here today I totally started rambling in Spanglish to her and I said about 2 sentences before I even realized I was talking in a a language she has no idea what I am saying. :-) YEAH..I was afraid I was going to lose it as I learn more Japanese.It should be very interesting to see just what comes out of my mouth when I am in Honduras next month or better yet what comes out of my mouth when I get back here to Japan after a month speaking Spanish?
I amn already confused just thinking about it.
So we bid farewell and as I was walking back to the gate I ran into a young alumni student who was busy pr acting his archery and so I asked him a bit about it and if it was a sport or mediation and he said he does it as a sport.It was very interesting to see him in his fancy pants and shooting into straw bales. On the way home I grabbed a curry filled bun and some Boy day treats at the bakery and enjoyed that and some carrots and apples back at home.

Tuesday May 5, 2009 Boys Day
Well it was the last day of Golden Week and I woke to very cloudy and dark skies. I was glad the event I chose to attend today was an indoor exhibition, but for many I am sure, they were sad it was not a sunny day. Usually many folks go to parks and fly kites and have fun playing outdoors with their boys. They hang carp like wind sock pinwheels in front of their homes if they have a son. Yes I have one here for you Grambo and I even bought some of the special rice balls filled with sweet red beans wrapped in maple leaf last night to eat today in your honor. Some folks also have a samurai figure and the special warrior hat they put on display as well. This is a day to honor male children and to wish them strength, happiness and good health.
So I woke up and after chatting with some family members on Skype I made my way back up to Tokyo BIG Sight for Dream Party 2009 and Cos-Day. This was a day for dress up and many were doing just that. It was a people watching day masterpiece and photo opportunity of the best kind. You had to pay $5.00 to take pics and you know I was in for that. So I paid my fee to get in and then my photo fee and I was happy to freely roam and snap away, or so I thought. I did just that most all afternoon downstairs, which was the Cos Day area and where 1000's of Manga Fan wannabee artists , cartoonists and writers were all selling their homemade books, pins, posters,figurines...at least that is what I think the girl struggled hard to tell me in her English.
I had just talked to AJ my niece before I left and she is into Mange and so I asked her some names of characters and what they looked like so I could try and get some photos she might like when I am there. Also, I wanted to know a little something of this whole new world before I entered unknown territory. I did not want to totally look out of place, yet my guess is that I still did. I mean I was the only 50 + white women in the whole area I think. I did see some younger European looking girls and boys. There were older Japanese men taking pics of the scantily cals girls of course, but I did not see too many women over 30 yrs if that.
I bought a few books that looked interesting by their covers and if the kid behind the table was willing to talk and try to communicate with me, I figured that was worth a $2-$4 dollar book at least for their effort.
So i walked around the huge hall and looked at the different tables where many were busy with their sketch pads and drawing more manga characters as they sat and waited for folks to buy their goods. Boy was I surprised when one book with a bright pink cover and 4 cute characters grabbed my attention. As I sat paging through the book I suddenly realized I was looking at a manga porn cartoon book. I could feel the young girl and boy who was sitting next to her get a bit uncomfortable and when I said I would buy it and wanted her to sign her name and then take a photo her with it she got a bit embarrassed. I explained how in American if you buy a book from the live author they always sign their name and the date to it. So she did and she did end up letting me take a very shy looking photo of her. When I got home and showed CJ what it was and as we looked closer we realized at the end of the book, it was actually two boys dressed like girls who were having sex. Odd and very interesting at the same time. I really would love to know what it says in Japanese, except I am not sure who is the right person for me to ask to help translate it? ha-ha Perhaps I had wait till I get to know some of my Japanese friends a bit better.
So with books in my bag, I went outside on the plaza to take and watch the kids take pics of each other in their costumes. I think if I understand the girl correctly they were to dress in costumes of characters from these 4 manga stories. Debone. Gintama. Paytareea and Pop'n. I am sure that is not the correct spelling, but that is what it sounded like to me if I spelt it with our alpahabet. It will be very interesting one day if I learn more about this,and what exactly she did say and who some of the characters are that I took pics of. Then the rain started to fall and all moved inside. I was hot in my sweater and skirt so I can imagine how hot they must of been with their big wigs on, tall platform shoes, layers of costumes, fake fur...I actually did not feel so tall with many of them wearing 4 inch clunky shoes. and even looked a few of them eye to eye. It was very hard to tell who was actually a girl dressed like a boy or vice verse. I know when I first looked at couples I assumed right away it was male and female, but then upon closer inspection as I got more comfortable as the day went on I noticed some were actually girls that I thought were boys. I am sure there were some boys dressed as girls as well, but I don't know that for fact. The bottom floor sales and photos party ended at 3 and so then I went upstairs and there was a whole other party going on there.
This was now more anime video sales and an introduction of new games and video cartoons. It too, was more of an adult playground if you will type of an atmosphere and there were a few rather scantly clad girls posing in their costumes or lack there of. They had to check my ID to enter this adult world and I also had to buy yet another $5.00 pass. Here many men I noticed were all standing in line waiting patiently to get their turn at making the lady pout, twist and turn in all the ways he so desired her to. Some guys even laid on the floor to get angled shots from below. It felt pretty hard core, and I thought these guys are very serious about this and it too was sort of weird in a way. I only wanted one straight on shot of some and some of the pics I snapped were actually more fun when I got the photographer in as well and how he was so into it. I did that for about 1/2 hour walking through the room snapping shots over people's shoulders and above their heads, cause I still had a pretty good view and not many obstructions. I kept my flash off, so not to distract the ones that were taking their all important up close and personal shots, but then late in the day, a young girl came over and stopped me and said I could not take pictures. Well of course I pointed to my $5.00 badge I had bought and said I was under the impression I can take all the pics I want as I purchased a pass. But then she tried to tell me more and what I finally understood after 3 different people tried to find some kind of English and to explain to me the Japan way of going about this. What I learned is, that I had to wait in line and get permission first, and then she would pose for me and only me. I told them I did not want to take 20 shots I only wanted one, but they said I could not take more without waiting in line and getting their permission first.
So feeling a bit frustrated and wishing I knew Jaanese and could of communicated better or at least a little.. I saw there were a few more girls I wanted pics of that I did not get earlier in the day and so I went and stood in line. I literally waited for 3 guys to take their turns in front of me. Each guy I would say took between 20 and 40 shots of the black dominatrix looking girl. I actually felt a bit foolish and told her so when I finally got up to her that I was sorry I only wanted 1straight on photo of her and not 45 like the others took. She smiled and then posed for me and only me. So off I went to the next line and got a pic of two girls with flowers in their hair and then I decided I had had enough. I was exhausted after trying to understand what it was they were saying to me,felt bad that I was going against the rule so to speak and not knwing that I was, did not understand who or what it was I was looking at, and it then all felt a bit awkward when I had to ask for a photo and I was not as into it as all the men around me were.
It had peeked my curiosty though in learning a bit about the story lines of some of the stories. Sadly all the stories that AJ knows about and likes such as Inuasha, Fruit Basket, Narootoe, Full Metal Alchemist, Death Note and Bleach were not ones that they were dressing like today and so I saw nothing that her and I talked about.:-( Needless to say I entered a whole new and very different world and one that leaves me questioning many things I saw and wanting to know more. This was another perfect example of organization. All the kids went to a certain room to get their costumes on and off and then brought their little pull along suitcase to a coat check like area where they left their bags in neatly stacked rows and rows of luggage, only to be returned to the rightful owner when they showed a pass. I too was surprised how so many kids had really nice digital Nikon and or Canon cameras while many others just use their digital phones.
It makes me wonder what kind of allowance these kids get to buy all these elaborate costumes, cameras and many do not have jobs or if they do they only work 1-2 weeks a year on spring break and over the New Year holiday. Most kids I am told don't work while going to school as they have school and then cram school and after that some even go to 2 cram schools. I wonder when they have a life?
So back home I went that night and have been in the house ever since as the rain has not stopped since 1:30 pm on Tuesday.
I am getting caught up on computer and photos, but do need to get out tomorrow to buy some food. Well that is about it for now..if the weather ever clears up, there is a ONE LOVE Jamaican party at Yoyoji park this weekend, so that is where you might find me on Mothers Day?
Konbanwa
Karla




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